How to Get the Kids to Play Outside and Forget Their Computer Games

March 26, 2020

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If you have a child that prefers to play computer games rather than go outside, you’re not alone. It’s one of the big challenges that parents face on an almost daily basis in today’s digital world. 

You can limit time on a smartphone or gaming console but that can often lead to sulks and arguments. It’s much better to encourage your child to want to go out rather than forcing them into the back garden to play. Here we take a look at why this is a good idea and how to make it an easy transition. 

Why Should Kids Get Out More?

No one is saying that computer games are bad but, if your child is playing them every spare minute they have, it can be more than a little worrying. It’s an easy situation to get into. 

Just like watching the TV, letting your child play on a game can be pretty convenient. You can get on with something ‘important’ and you know they are safely engaged and they’re not going to bother you. 

According to Statista, a 3 to 4-year-old is playing on a computer game on average for 6.2 hours a week. By the time they reach their teens this rises to 13.8 hours. This may not seem a lot but, as we all know, averages don’t always tell the entire story. If kids aren’t given boundaries, that number of hours can suddenly increase dramatically. 

Enforcing set rules should make sure that your children don’t spend too much time on the latest computer game. You may, for instance, want to restrict your child to just an hour a day playing a particular game. That often means taking away their device and even hiding it from them. 

The important thing is that you need to make sure you keep to the rules and have sanctions in place if your child complains or doesn’t follow them. 

The Good and Bad Effects of Video Games

Playing computer games can be good. They teach problem-solving, for example, and improve hand-eye coordination. They boost critical thinking and help kids develop strategies. It’s not the fact that kids play these games at all but the length of time they are spending on them. 

Another issue that many parents worry about is their child playing computer games that are too violent. This has been shown to raise levels of aggression. Addiction to games has also been associated with increasing levels of anxiety and depression. 

Most parents understand that keeping control over how much time children spend on their consoles is important. One solution, of course, is getting your child outside more, physically playing rather than being stuck indoors. 

Getting Out More

The thing about computer games is that you don’t have to do anything physically. When you’re organising play outside for your child, you have to monitor them and find activities they are going to enjoy. While it takes more effort, there are several benefits to getting out more. 

  • It gives your child all the exercise they need. 
  • They can feed their imaginations and boost their creativity. 
  • Fresh air is good for health. 
  • It improves cognitive and emotional wellbeing. 
  • It improves communication skills and builds stronger bonds. 

If you’re worried that your child is not getting out as much as they should, it’s time to put in place a plan to change things up. Here are just four great ways to convince your kid that being outdoors is much better than playing their video game. 

Let Them Get Dirty

Kids have a natural affinity for getting dirty and making a mess. They love it!

When they’re outside, don’t be so precious if they get their hands dirty or end up muddy. If you encourage them to get messy, you’ll find that your child will want to go out more. 

Of course, you don’t want all that mud traipsed through the house so you might have to watch out for kids running into the kitchen. Otherwise, just relax a little and clean clothes waiting nearby. 

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Create an Amazing World

Kids also like imaginative new worlds and creating a space where they want to explore and play make-believe is a really good idea.

This goes beyond letting them take their toys outside. You want to create a centrepiece they associate with outside and which is stronger than any computer game. Something like a wooden playhouse from Fatmoose who offer not just playhouses but also climbing frames and sandpits. These will not only give your kids hours of fun, but it also looks great in the garden and can be used all year round. 

Another thing that is guaranteed to get the kids outside on a hot day is the traditional swimming pool. If you have plenty of room, a blow-up pool is probably the cheapest option for keeping the children entertained. It’s also brilliant if you invite a few friends over to enjoy the fun. 

Spend Time Outdoors

Getting the kids away from their gaming consoles is not just about pushing them into the back garden. There are plenty of outdoor activities that you can take advantage of, especially if you live in a flat and don’t have a garden at all. Walking in the country is not only free but it’s great for your health. 

Take a look at your local amenities and start using them. A kick around with a football in the local park is a lot better for the mind and body than a few hours playing a computer game. It will also get you fit too!

Make it a Habit

Finally, the one big way you can make going out something your kids enjoy is by making it a habit. The reason children often get more addicted to their digital games is that they are used to them. They come home and sit down to play with their console or smartphone. It’s all they know.

If you get children into the habit of going out they will see it as a more natural activity to do rather than playing on their computer games. Yes, it takes some time investment on your part but it’s something you can certainly start from very early on. 


  • Sarah Bailey March 26, 2020 at 10:40 am

    These sound like some lovely ideas, there is so much out there to do when you’re a kid. Definitely worth being out there playing, rather than on computer games.

  • Samantha Donnelly March 26, 2020 at 2:47 pm

    I agree with all of this, I always believe kids should get outside and get dirty having fun. Luckily two of ours were always outside, the other we used to have to drag outside. There is always so much fun to be had whether in your garden or a walk in the woods.

  • Yeah Lifestyle March 27, 2020 at 9:40 am

    I often gets kids to go out and play either in the garden or for walks as much as we can especially if the weather is good as I agree that it is great for their imagination and creativity.

  • Jenni March 27, 2020 at 9:50 am

    It can be such a battle some days can’t it. I feel so lucky that my daughter loves our garden – I am on the look out for the perfect playhouse for her so she can spend even more time out there now that the weather is a little nicer.

  • Kara Guppy March 27, 2020 at 11:16 am

    We have been re-building our fairy garden and bug house this week and planting seeds for butterflies and bee flowers

  • Bella and Dawn at Dear Mummy Blog March 27, 2020 at 9:21 pm

    We have the opposite problem at the moment and I’m out in the back garden all the time especially this week! It’s been hard dragging me indoors for maths and english homeschooling! I’m still a bit young for computer games on the big console but screen time does worry my folks when I’m older with smartphones. Telly is my weakness! Great tips!

  • Lyanna Soria March 27, 2020 at 10:10 pm

    Those are some great tips to keep in mind. My kids are introverted and would prefer being inside but they like nature as well so I have no problem in making them spend time outside.

  • Sally Akins March 29, 2020 at 2:07 pm

    It’s definitely important for kids to get out into the fresh air, especially at the moment – these tips will really help

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