5 Self Improvement Strategies to Encourage your Kids to Apply

June 27, 2019

As a parent, your goal is to raise your kid to be happy, successful and confident, and while there’s a lot you can do to help them be all of that, there’s a lot they, as a person, needs to do as well. Getting your child aware about and invested in self-improvement strategies is a good way to shape him into a confident and positive individual when he grows to be an adult.

But how exactly do you get that done? Keep reading to find out just that!

Self-improvement strategies for children

Start With New Habits

More often than not, our habits are the ones that stop us from achieving our personal growth and goals. Help your child identify the habits that could be keeping them from doing things they want to do, and form new habits that empower them. Make them feel better, and push them towards improving themselves on many levels.

Take Responsibility

One of the simplest ways to help your kid understand and get started on self-improvement is to help them take responsibility and come out of victim mode. The more they learn to take charge and decide what they need to change, the better they will actually be able to do it. Teach your child to form healthy self-talk habits – to be their own supporter and motivate themselves to do better, instead of blaming things to fate or other people. Help them see their flaws, but in a way that doesn’t overpower them or affect their self-esteem, and instead, in a way, that helps them want to grow as a person.

Step Outside the Comfort Zone

Big things happen when you step outside your comfort zone – you’ve probably already experienced that as an adult, and this can turn out to be one of the most valuable lessons you could get your little one to understand as well. Encourage your kid to invest their time and effort into doing things they haven’t done before – even if they fail at it – it’ll help them grow and learn a lot more than they would if they just stuck to their safe place.

Win in the Mind

All self-improvement coaches and leaders believe in the power of the mind. The mind is a powerful tool, and with the right mindset and determination, extraordinary feats can be achieved, and that is exactly what you would want your little one to know. Help them understand the magic of positive thinking, and thinking big, dreaming big. Help them construct mental images of themselves winning at what they wants, and then team it up with determination.

Balance Self Acceptance with Self Improvement

This one’s probably the most important of all self-improvement strategies you could encourage your little one to follow. As your kid grows and starts to understand the concept of personal growth, have discussions with them that make them think. Help them find that balance between accepting themselves just as they are and loving themselves for it, and yet, trying to improve and become the best version of themselves.


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2 Comments

  • Caroline Cutress June 27, 2019 at 9:22 am

    Wow! What a brilliant post! Totally agree with all of this! If only my parents had known this stuff! I will start applying it now! Thanks Sarah!

  • Sim @ Sim's Life June 27, 2019 at 10:41 am

    Some great ideas here! There is so much pressure on children these days – self improvement is so important! Sim x

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